Become an au pair
in Europe
Live with a host family. Help with their kids. Get a private room, meals, pocket money, and time off to explore Europe. 100% free for au pairs — no agency fees.
Free forever for au pairs · EU passport holders only · 5-minute signup
What you get as an au pair
Private room and meals
Live in your own bedroom in the host family's home. Three meals a day included — typically eating with the family.
Monthly pocket money
€280–500 per month depending on country and hours, paid by the family directly. Plus they often cover transport and language courses.
Live abroad, learn a language
Spend 6–12 months in Germany, the Netherlands, Ireland, France, or other EU countries. Improve your English, German, Dutch, French — whatever you want to learn.
Who can join
🇪🇺 EU passport
Required. We connect au pairs with families across the EU — your passport lets you move freely without a visa.
🎂 Age 18–30
Most host countries accept au pairs aged 18–26, though Germany and others allow up to 30 in some cases.
💬 English or local language
Conversational English is enough to start. Some families want German, French, Spanish, Italian — match what you speak.
📋 No experience required
Some childcare experience helps but isn't mandatory. References from babysitting, teaching, or younger siblings count.
How it works
Create your free profile (5 minutes)
Add photos, write about yourself, list languages and experience. The more complete your profile, the more families will notice you.
Browse host families
See families across the EU. Filter by country, language, ages of children, and what they offer.
Message families directly
No agency in the middle. Talk directly to families you like. Video call before committing.
Sign a contract and travel
Use our free contract template. Agree on hours, pocket money, and start date. Most placements happen within 4–8 weeks.
Common questions
How much do au pairs really earn?
Pocket money is €280–500/month depending on country and hours. On top you get a private room, all meals, often a transport pass, and many families pay for a language course (~€50/month). Net: little out-of-pocket cost while abroad.
Do I need to pay an agency?
No. DearAuPair is 100% free for au pairs forever. No registration fees, no matching fees, no commission. The platform is paid for by host families.
Why do I need an EU passport?
We focus on placements within the EU where your passport lets you move freely without applying for a visa. Visa-required placements (US J-1, Australia, Canada) involve agencies, paperwork, and months of waiting — we don't do those. If you're not an EU passport holder, our platform won't work for you.
What countries can I go to?
Any EU member state. Most placements happen in Germany, the Netherlands, Ireland, France, Italy, Spain, Belgium, Austria, and Scandinavia. You choose your preferred countries when you sign up.
How long does an au pair placement last?
Typically 6–12 months. Some families want shorter (3 months for summer) or longer (up to 24 months in some countries). You set your availability.
Is it safe?
Every host family verifies their email and credit card before joining. You can video call before committing, block and report any user, and all conversations stay on the platform with a record.
Ready to start your au pair journey?
Free to join · No commitments · 5-minute signup