DearAuPair vs AuPairWorld
The biggest established au pair platform — how do we compare?
Quick Comparison
| Feature | DearAuPair | AuPairWorld |
|---|---|---|
| Model | Marketplace — you choose your match directly | Marketplace (direct match, no agency) |
| Cost for au pairs | 100% Free | Free |
| Cost for families | €9.99/mo, €19.99/3mo, €29.99/6mo | €49.90 / €89.90 / €149.90 (1, 3, 6 months) |
| Free conversations | None — membership unlocks messaging | Limited preview only |
| Auto-renewal | Never | No |
| Real-time chat | Yes — with typing indicators | Basic messaging |
| Verification | Email + Stripe card verification | Email + manual |
What AuPairWorld does well
Credit where credit is due — here's what they're known for:
- Largest user base in Europe
- Established brand since 1999
- Multiple language support
- No auto-renewal
Why families choose DearAuPair
- Significantly cheaper: €9.99 vs €49.90 (1 month), €19.99 vs €89.90 (3 months), €29.99 vs €149.90 (6 months)
- Free profile browsing for everyone before any commitment
- Real-time chat with typing indicators (not basic messaging)
- Modern, mobile-first design built in 2026
- Card verification on all families to prevent spam
Marketplace, not agency
DearAuPair is a marketplace, not an agency. That means you (au pairs and host families) communicate, decide, and arrange things directly — without a middleman taking a cut or controlling the matching process. You stay in full control of who you talk to, when, and on what terms.
Which one should you choose?
AuPairWorld is a solid choice if you value an established brand with a large existing user base. DearAuPair is the better choice if you want a modern experience, transparent pricing, and the ability to browse all au pair profiles for free before deciding to subscribe.
You can always create a free DearAuPair profile in 5 minutes and see for yourself — au pairs never pay anything, and families can browse every profile for free.
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Free for au pairs · Membership from €9.99/month for families · No auto-renewal
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